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A small, colorful and very social parrot. The myth that it "dies if kept alone" isn't backed up, but pairs bond for life in the wild and a lone bird needs a lot from you. Whether to keep one bird or two depends on your time and attention; either way it needs plenty of space and daily flight.

The lovebird, or Agapornis, is a small parrot that wants a big commitment. With a name like "love parrot," a strong rumor goes around that a lovebird kept alone will die of grief. On this page we look at that rumor and at the bird's real needs, using veterinary and animal welfare sources.
Merck writes that lovebirds have sweet voices and are not usually loud, though they can get moody during breeding season. Animal Diversity Web calls the peach-faced lovebird "a very social bird": in the wild it moves in flocks of 5 to 20 and forms groups of about 100 when grass seeds ripen. In cold weather, pairs or small groups huddle together to stay warm.
The same source notes that females are dominant, that pairs form very early (sometimes by two months of age), that sibling pairs aren't unusual, and that the species is monogamous. Merck says that bored, under-stimulated birds can develop biting, screaming and feather plucking, and that birds can become lonely without enough attention.
Every bird is an individual. Temperament, hand-tameness and how well a pair gets along vary from bird to bird.
A lovebird suits people who can spend time with it every day, or who can keep two birds and give both room. Merck says to think realistically about how much time you can spend with a bird.
| Situation | Good fit? |
|---|---|
| Apartment | Yes; its voice is sweet and often not loud |
| Family with kids | Yes, but no handling or squeezing, and supervise |
| Home with a cat or dog | Be careful; never leave a bird alone with another pet |
| Long hours alone | Hard; a single bird will struggle, and even a pair needs attention |
| First-time bird owners | Possible, but don't buy on impulse; it lives 15 to 25 years |
The genus Agapornis includes several species; the most common pet is the peach-faced lovebird (A. roseicollis). Animal Diversity Web writes that it lives in southwestern Africa (northwestern South Africa, western Namibia and southwestern Angola) in dry areas near permanent water, such as desert edges and sparsely wooded land. It roosts at night in the nests of sociable weavers and sparrow-weavers.
In the wild it feeds mostly on seeds and drinks water several times a day in its hot, dry habitat. At home that means fresh, clean water every day and a varied, balanced diet.
The peach-faced lovebird has a green body and an orange-red face and throat; pet forms include yellow, blue and many other color mutations. Other Agapornis species differ in face color and size, so find out the exact species when you buy.
In many parrot species the sexes look alike. RSPCA Australia writes that some species need surgical or DNA sexing for a valid sexing certificate. Sex matters when choosing a companion: two birds of the same sex aren't guaranteed to get along. Ask a bird vet if you want to know your bird's sex for sure.
More in lovebird care.
RSPCA Australia writes that a cage should be long rather than tall, and that as a minimum the bird must be able to stretch its wings without touching the sides and sit on a perch with its tail clear of the floor. For a pair, the width should be at least three times their combined wingspan, with at least two wingbeats between perches. Birds kept permanently in a cage need a flight aviary or regular safe indoor flying; confinement alone can cause obesity, arthritis, soft bones and boredom-related behavior.
Merck writes that diets based on seeds and nuts are high in fat and lacking in many vitamins and minerals, that vitamin A deficiency is common but often goes unnoticed, and that birds can pick out the tasty seeds and leave the pellets. The recommended setup is a base of a complete formulated pellet diet with a smaller portion of fresh vegetables and fruit. Agriculture Victoria likewise says seed mixes shouldn't be fed daily and should be offered in small amounts as treats.
Work out your bird's diet plan with a vet who treats birds. See foods that are harmful to birds.
Birds hide illness (Merck). The information below is for general knowledge; see a vet who treats birds for diagnosis and treatment.
Animal Diversity Web says 15 to 25 years in captivity, and Merck up to 20; the wild lifespan is unknown. Diet, air quality, out-of-cage flight and regular vet checks matter most.
Long life also changes how you plan: think ahead about who will care for the bird during travel, illness or a move (RSPCA Australia). Treating the bird's care and costs as a budget that stretches over years makes it less likely you'll have to give it up later.
We couldn't find a veterinary source backing up this claim. What we do know: birds are flock animals (RSPCA), the peach-faced lovebird is very social in the wild and pairs are monogamous (Animal Diversity Web), and bored birds that get too little attention can develop biting, screaming and feather plucking (Merck). So "struggles and develops problems" is closer to the truth than "dies."
RSPCA says a bird's companion can be another bird or a person. Two birds meet the social need, but cost and space double, and incompatible pairs can fight.
Merck says lovebirds have sweet voices and are not usually loud; we couldn't find information on talking ability in these sources.
Merck says it can be. On nest boxes, RSPCA notes they can encourage egg laying.
Merck says covering can stress many birds; RSPCA suggests a separate night cage rather than a cover. Watch your bird, and ask your vet if there's a problem.
By Tüylüm · Last checked: November 10, 2026. Compiled from the sources above and written in our own words. Spotted a mistake? Write to [email protected] and we'll fix it right away. Photo from Wikimedia Commons, used under the license shown below it.